You’re a new mom

When I was pregnant, I hated the phrases “just you wait” or “I’ll remind you of that when…” Now that Avonlea is here, I hate the phrase “you’re a new mom” as much if not more. I’ve been surprised at how this phrase is used to be condescending and demeaning and everyone from strangers to … Continue reading You’re a new mom

Pro-Tip: First name

There's a fine line when using a person's first name. In some cases, it makes the recipient uncomfortable and may make you come across as condescending. This post from the New York Times is from 1988, but don't let the year make you think it isn't relevant. The author writes this overuse of first names … Continue reading Pro-Tip: First name